Forget the Internet. Forget the birth-control pill. The biggest change in American dating might be the same device that rules the rest of our lives: the cell phone.
It's impossible to be young and dating without one. It dominates every courtship step, from first moves to late-night booty calls to "can u bring home dinner, honey?" text messages.
When exchanging numbers at a bar, there is no more desperate scramble for a pen. Now, it's a scramble for the phone so digits can be plugged in.
But as names and numbers accumulate in the phone, a serial dater's cell turns into a modern-day black book - or, in the case of columnist Matt Katz, a graveyard of past dating experiences.
The cell phone's text messaging also proves that there's a high-tech way to behave like a jerk.